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Reasoning Will Wear You Out

April 24, 2023 by Aliene

What Does the Bible Say About Making Decisions?

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Are you in the middle of making a significant decision, worn out from reasoning but worried about making the right decision? Today’s message is just for you. 

Life can become confusing and blurry when we navigate our lives using people and things outside of us. As codependents, we have relied on people and our own reasoning and as a result became weary, worn out, and often headed in the wrong direction. But when we rest under God’s reign, everything changes. This new way of living happens through a relationship with God, not religion. 

I am in awe of football quarterbacks. Not because of how far they can throw that leather ball with just the right spin to sail through the air into the endzone, but because they can make split-second decisions while facing muscled sack-hungry men plowing toward them. If I were in their shoes, I would shout “excuse me—wait a minute—everyone stop—I need to think. Can we stop playing? I don’t want to make a mistake!” We all know what the sad result of that would be.

But quarterbacks have a different strategy. They take a quick look at their coach before a play and find decisive direction from their seasoned leader’s overall perspective, a perspective that is impossible for them to possess in their nearby position on the field. 

In the game of life in our broken world, as we face epic battles, like quarterbacks, we must make many decisions while opposing onslaughts from the enemy, world, and our flesh come our way. When this happens, if you reason and reason, you can get stuck and potentially sacked instead of experiencing the fruit that flows from following the Holy Spirit. 

God wired you for daily reliance.

Reasoning will wear you out! But wise women brave this broken world by redirecting reasoning to rely on the Holy Spirit and find rest through God’s divine direction. Listen into today’s message for more and walk with divine discernment in a new direction.

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Self-Reliance Sabotages God’s Power 

April 13, 2023 by Aliene

How Does Self-Reliance Sabotage God’s Power?

Hello beautiful,

Can I encourage you today?

Sometimes we can become impatient and frustrated in our inner healing journey, because the enemy shames us into thinking we are not where we need to be. Codependents are prime targets for this lie because we are the self-reliant souls that like to get things done.

But God’s ways are different. Sanctification is through his power in his timing and not our strength or schedule. 

In our latest message, discover how self-reliance can sabotage God’s power in your life.

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Join the Treasured Tribe and discover the Nourish Method – our grace-based daily process to transform your life through the power of God’s Word; connect with Aliene on weekly zoom calls, gain access to all Treasured Tribe Bible Studies, our private online social platform, app, digital Nourish Notebook, and much more. To learn more, click here: https://treasuredtribe.com


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Why Narcissists Threaten Loved Ones (Part 2 of our series on Codependents and Narcissists)

April 12, 2022 by Aliene

3 Steps for Codependents to Give Volume to Their Voice

King Saul used his position to serve himself, and he felt threatened when David stepped into his calling and began to shine. This selfish focus is often a classic trait of narcissists or narcissistic behavior. When you are codependent, as long as you are soothing and serving your Saul, he will be satisfied and content with you. But the moment you step into your anointing and shine to give volume to your God-given voice, your Saul will fear losing his spotlight and become jealous and angry. It’s time to stop suppressing your anointing. Listen to today’s podcast and discover 3-steps to give volume to your voice and shine!

Did you miss part 1? Catch the replay here!

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Dying to Self Is Not Codependency (Episode 1 of What Does It Mean to Die to Self Podcast Series)

September 28, 2021 by Aliene

Letting Go of People-Pleasing to Live for God

AS a former codependent, I did a lot of dying to myself, but it was to live to please others, not God. And this misunderstanding about God’s concept of “dying to self” made me weary, angry, and sometimes really resentful. Ahhh, but God’s truth sets us free. Dying to self means taking back your free will from people and surrendering it to God to live for him. This is a BIG difference from people-pleasing. Listen to today’s podcast, say so long to your people-pleasing days, and surrender to God and thrive! 

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God’s Solution for Codependency

September 21, 2021 by Aliene

Codependency, most simply stated, is a lack of God dependency. Camouflaged under the radar of good works, serving others, and self-reliance, the codependent coping mechanism often goes undetected. I struggled with this issue for years, utterly unaware of codependency’s devastating impact, until God took me on a long journey to freedom. While I am not a licensed therapist, I have struggled with codependency and found God’s solution brought me freedom. Now, I want to share my journey to help others. Join me for our podcast today and discover more.

Click here to watch the Conquering Codependency God’s Way playlist on YouTube.

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Codependency Cure

December 15, 2020 by Aliene

Is Codependency in the Bible?  Not the exact word – but the idolatry of man is mentioned all over the Bible and that IS codependency. Simply put, codependency is a lack of God dependency. I struggled with this for years and my codependency coping mechanism resulted in some unhealthy friendships, lack of boundaries, a chaotic schedule and a lifestyle of people pleasing. But God showed me a better way to deal with the shame in my life and now I want to help others (which is why I talk about it all the time… LOL). In today’s podcast we’re talking about five timeless biblical principles that can help tackle codependency.   


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Prayer Breaks Codependency

September 29, 2020 by Aliene

Lord, we want more of YOU! Prayer breaks codependency by increasing our God dependency. Inside today’s podcast, discover three steps you can put into action to take your prayer life to the next level. Find strength that only God can provide inside a storm and grow your roots deeper in God’s love.  

Today’s podcast is a She Is Treasured Bible Study called Godly Girl Power. You can gain unlimited access to the Godly Girl Power study as well as all other She Is Treasured Bible Studieswhen you become a Treasured Tribe® Member. Discover Treasured Tribe Membership by visiting www.TreasuredTribe.com.  

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When Idolatry Interrupts Intimacy With God

August 13, 2020 by Aliene

Idolatry interrupts intimacy with God, but often we are unaware of the effects because we assume that our activity of bible study, church attendance, and written prayers equal intimacy. God invites you to an authentic, intimate relationship with him so you can find strength and love to live as God intended. In today’s podcast, restore your intimacy with God by freeing your heart from idols. 

Today’s podcast is from our She Is Treasured Bible Study Series: Godly Girl Power. To find out more about this series and how to gain access to the Godly Girl Power study and more, click here.   

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